Before We Were Yours

Before We Were Yours

A Novel

Book - 2017
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Born into a world of wealth and privilege, Avery Stafford seems to have it all. A loving daughter to her father, a U.S. Senator, with her own ambitious career as a lawyer and a handsome fiancé waiting for her in Baltimore, she has lived a charmed life. But when Avery returns to Aiken to help her father weather a health crisis and a political attack, a chance encounter with May Bonher, an elderly woman she's never met before, leaves Avery deeply shaken. Avery's decision to learn more about May's life will take her on a journey through her family's long-hidden history, illuminating the heart of Avery's story. Based on the true story of a system of orphanages that was ultimately deemed responsible for the kidnapping and selling of thousands of children in illegal adoptions, in this story Wingate has created a riveting, heart-wrenching read.
Publisher: New York :, Ballantine Books,, [2017]
Edition: First edition
Copyright Date: ♭2017
ISBN: 9780425284681
Characteristics: 342 pages


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Aug 17, 2018

Lisa Wingate. I shall not forget her name nor the astonishingly descriptive, beautifully haunting and heartbreaking story of a family torn apart by greedy, unscrupulous people and those in authority who gave license to the people who stole so many children away from their biological families leaving them with no knowledge of their original heritage. It has been a while since a book grabbed me and drew me in the way “Before We Were Yours” did. I was both happy and sad to turn the last page.

Aug 05, 2018

Story of two sisters who were stolen from a poor black family in Tennessee. The orphanage that "sold" them to white rich families. HOrrible conditions and ultimate joy.

Jul 27, 2018

Enjoyed reading "Before We Were Yours" and learning about the history of adoption in our country. As an adoptive mother my heart broke as the story progressed in learning the fate of the Foss children and all children removed from their families by Miss Tann. There were many life lessons throughout the book on families, love, relationships, hardship, trusting, and determination. In the end, it was good to know Rill understood an adoptive family can be loving and nurturing to those they care for, but it can't take away the pain of losing your parents and siblings in a tragic way. So happy the two sisters were brought together in the end.

Jul 27, 2018

Referred to in a Friends of St Paul library promo

Jul 26, 2018

Loved this book! One of those that you don’t want to end but can’t put down.

Jul 23, 2018

This story has stayed with me like none of the others I have recently read. I agree with the other commenters: this is a sad but realistic story featuring women of strong character... a story made all the more poignant by its basis in fact. The families we are born into do indeed determine our lives' general direction. Those of us who are fortunate enough to be born into loving families with enough resources and education to give us a boost might consider how we can share with others less fortunate. The fate of the Foss family prompts us to count our blessings and focus on the joy in our lives.

Jul 11, 2018

A book that was a reflection of human tragedy in the U.S. The imaginary Foss family depicts the destruction of families - the 'child-trafficking' racket led by Tann and her team of adoption homes. I highly recommend this book.

Jul 10, 2018

This was a exceptional book. I couldn't put it down. Unbelievable that this was based on true accounts of the Tennessee Children's Home Society.

kkoenigc Jul 10, 2018

Well written and love the fact the book was based on true events.

Jul 07, 2018

could hardly put this book down

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ArapahoeMaryA Jun 13, 2017

I clench my teeth so hard the pain travels all the way to the top of my head. I'm glad for it - it's just a little ache and I know where it comes from. I can stop it anytime I want. The one in my heart is way bigger. I can't fix it no matter how hard I try. It scares me so much that I can't even breathe.

"…the love of sisters needs no words. It does not depend on memories, or mementos or proof. It runs as deep as a heartbeat; it is as ever present as a pulse.


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